tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post5619212254993976698..comments2024-03-29T04:24:40.335-03:00Comments on A Fat Girl & A Fat Horse: Support, Support, Support: Family, Coaches & The Perfect BraAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13793505867552758436noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-60048451288495429122012-11-28T20:35:18.463-04:002012-11-28T20:35:18.463-04:00I've just found your blog. Thanks. it's re...I've just found your blog. Thanks. it's really encouraging! I wouldn't like to see weight loss stuff so much. I learned a few years back about 'health at every size' and 'fat acceptance' and got off the guilt and diet roller coaster. Now I just eat mostly healthy like 'normal' people do, and just be the weight I am and live the life I would like to live, not waiting to be thin first, because it is not going to happen. 95 percent of dieters gain it all back and a bit more besides because they've damaged their metabolism. I don't like those odds and I'm sick of beating myself up about those inevitable bounce backs.<br /><br />Re Enell bras. I totally love them! I have lots now. I wear them nearly all the time. My mega boobs made any underwire bras totally uncomfortable and even wearing two at once didn't work while riding. They do feel a bit tight for a little while so I wear new ones while doing active stuff (when I don't notice) till they loosen up a little. The white ones are softer and a little stretchier than the black ones, so are nicer to wear for every day. I don't care about the mono boob look. I'd prefer it to the 'shoulder straps forever slipping off and boobs falling over the top of my bra,' look. :)<br /><br />I'd love to see pics of people riding drafts and draft crosses as well as non-drafts. I love drafts! I'd have one even if I was thinner! I think any pics of other fat folks getting out and riding will encourage us.<br /><br />I sold my girl (QH/Clydie/Perch) due to finding out my 'CFS' was actually late stage lyme disease, as treatment can leave you feeling even worse for a while and I was already struggling with using all my limited energy caring for her. I told myself I'd buy a new horse when I began to get better. It's been over a year now and am getting pretty itchy for another horse even though I am only a bit better. For now I can read blogs like yours and keep my hopes up! xxx Keechyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13508060247369251383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-42126218404206343762012-10-18T15:40:52.037-03:002012-10-18T15:40:52.037-03:00I recently got an Enell - that I had professionall...I recently got an Enell - that I had professionally fitted. It holds amazingly - and yes, it shows lines under a t-shirt. I really don't care about that part because lines are far less attention grabbing than pogo-breasts! It does take some time to break in but now it feels like a second skin. (I wish my underwires gave me this much lift!)khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01017393124477520116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-33259536384093486722012-08-06T05:41:28.672-03:002012-08-06T05:41:28.672-03:00Hi, I just found this blog as a brand new rider. ...Hi, I just found this blog as a brand new rider. I have my 5th lesson 14 hours from now! My daughter has been riding for 3 years and I set a goal to join her when I hit 200 pounds (starting weight 260). I hit a wall at 205 and decided that riding might get things moving. <br />On the "support" topic, I have owned a bra boutique for 13 years. I don't sell online or by phone, so this is all about information. I am very busty and wear the Satin and Lace bra y CFBC (www.cfbc.us is the manufacturer website). It is comfortable and controls bounce at what I would call 85%. Their all lace bra is extremely supportive and goes up to 52HH. They are expensive ($75 to $95 depending on size), but they last for years and years (if you don't kill them by putting them in the dryer). They certainly lift and separate, but some find them too pointy. My remedy for that is to get a $5 KMart stretch pull-over bra to smooth and round the profile. I used to have a booth at the county fair, and fit many rodeo riders so they never had to go charging for the finish with one arm across their bust again! I started rising trot last week, and bounce was never a distraction...but I did run out and get half chaps for my poor calves.<br />If you email CFBC at info@cfbc.us, they can tell you if there is a dealer in your area. The lace version takes some getting used to, but like a new pair of boots or jeans, they break in and become shaped to you while shaping you to a more defined figure. <br />Goddess also makes a very strong sports bra for fuller figures, but I found it too restrictive and flattening. Being attached to breathing, I nearly tore it off when I tried it. I have had clients, however, who just loved it.<br />I would be happy to answer questions and give fitting suggestions.<br />Cheers,<br />KateAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03019302474295332719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-79238577177600629852009-12-18T02:12:35.927-04:002009-12-18T02:12:35.927-04:00First, having a great support group behind you doe...First, having a great support group behind you does make a world of difference! I am thankful that my husband and my son support my horse addiction 100%! They have even joined in and have their own horses and we are lucky enough to ride as a family.<br /><br />Thanks for the info on the slings! I have been trying to find some that support but don't hurt or cut of circulation, lol.Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00160019411583596303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-13687812175026098002009-12-13T16:38:53.610-04:002009-12-13T16:38:53.610-04:00I've seen this place recommended by several pe...I've seen this place recommended by several people. Haven't tried any yet, but plan to. http://www.titlenine.comtimberlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13146320381675161556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-34265209717606515282009-12-12T12:25:55.225-04:002009-12-12T12:25:55.225-04:00I have heard great things about Enell as well but...I have heard great things about Enell as well but they are a bit pricey and I have yet to pay 60$ yet for a 'maybe' but I really do intend on getting one before next show season. <br />I am 38GG and those puppies have a mind of their own. I ride double bra'd (is that a word?) and while showing in Hand (running with the horse) I actually duct taped them down and almost lost consciousness for it. WAAAY too tight so I don't think I will make that mistake again..although I have to admit..the girls didn't move. I have even been found in our dressing/tack room at the shows using vet wrap to get them down, but it takes too many rolls. <br />The lifesaving grace for me to show, (saddleseat, Huntseat and western as well as driving (Park/Pleasure)) was a girdle. Paid 35 for it online and mother of god does it suck everything in and even with my size give me a waist and makes the over all picture much prettier. <br />KarenAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02315839556491182503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-52725994782542714902009-12-12T09:07:56.671-04:002009-12-12T09:07:56.671-04:00Enell- made all the difference in the world for me...Enell- made all the difference in the world for me. Yes, the seams show, and it is snug-- to the poster who said she can not breathe with it on, try going up one size. <br /><br />I'd done the duct tape and two bra route. It hurt. I hurt. I am allergic to Pain.. no wait-- I am allergic to the adhesive on the back of the tape (band aids too.) Try the Enell. Seriously. You can also visit Callie at the MidWestHorse.blogspot.com blog- and zap her a message- she has a bra she uses that does lift and NOT mush "the girls" together as much. <br /><br />I came over here from Jump on and Ride- and am glad I did! Thank you for a great blog! Looking forward to reading along on your journey!Mrs. Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15269132012512166439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-40979816505137303862009-12-11T16:12:35.067-04:002009-12-11T16:12:35.067-04:00Char - that is EXACTLY what I am talking about - h...Char - that is EXACTLY what I am talking about - having people around you who believe you can succeed and will help you get there, regardless of any additional hurdles you might face!<br /><br />Thanks for the link!Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13793505867552758436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-71724344287439718362009-12-11T15:06:22.738-04:002009-12-11T15:06:22.738-04:00Hi - I am a new reader to your blog and I really e...Hi - I am a new reader to your blog and I really enjoy it. I am looking forward to reading some of the other things you have written as well. <br /><br />I have found that my biggest hurdle to really becoming a great rider and getting the most out of my lessons is that I worry too much about how people perceive me as a heavier rider. <br /><br />Fortunately in the last year I have been able to surround myself with people and a trainer who believe that I can "ride the wind" whether or not I really can. It has made all of the difference in the world. next year I will be riding an Arabian for some people in a couple class 'A' shows. This is something that is a childhood dream that wouldn't have happened without the support of my friends. <br /><br />Keep up the good work - I'll be linking to you!Charhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234326861564467671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-66005598626803816402009-12-11T12:19:17.363-04:002009-12-11T12:19:17.363-04:00I like my Enell (and I don't have any problems...I like my Enell (and I don't have any problems breathing when wearing it but then I spend the weekends of at least three months a year in a bodice for Renn Faire so...) but I've taken to wearing a "regular" bra (second the ones you can get at Lane Bryant! I've had much better luck with them than the expensive "custom fitted" one I got from a lingerie shop) under it. <br /><br />I don't particularly care for the uni-boob look either, but I think until someone comes up with a sports bra that also lifts and separates, (it's a running gag at my barn that we should formlate a riding sports bra like that) we're just going to have to deal.Analisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11745597205111114664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-29895722920469648532009-12-11T11:04:10.042-04:002009-12-11T11:04:10.042-04:00I wouldn't mind seeing the weight loss stuff i...I wouldn't mind seeing the weight loss stuff in and amongst the other horse-y posts. In fact, I measured my mare's girth and my own waist/hips and plan to do so once a month. This way I can see how we are both getting in shape together! (Yes, she and I are both a little plus-sized!)<br /><br />I am tempted to try one of those extra expensive bras too, but like you I don't want to waste the money if it doesn't work/doesn't fit/is uncomfortable. Right now I just wear my regular daily bra, but I do ride a TWH so no bumpy trotting to bounce the "girls" around!<br /><br />(And yes, I would happily add a button/link to you on my blog!!!)ktpupphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14603028132123748521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-46101800062225983772009-12-10T21:08:21.030-04:002009-12-10T21:08:21.030-04:00I have an Enell. It works, but the seams show thr...I have an Enell. It works, but the seams show through almost any shirt, and I feel like I can't breathe when I'm wearing it. It's also quite a struggle to put it on!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-21787836265571805162009-12-10T12:43:17.435-04:002009-12-10T12:43:17.435-04:00Lane Bryant has some awesome bras and I also ride ...Lane Bryant has some awesome bras and I also ride with a regular bra and a sports bra. I am a 42ddd so I need all the help I can get. I was about one bounce away from resorting to duct tape when my also plus-sized sister took me to Lane Bryant. I am now comfortable with minimal bouncing. <br /><br />This is the first time I've read the blog and I think you're doing great! I am about 230lbs and really have always been heavy. I am also a horse trainer full-time so I ride between 6 and 11 horses per day in addition to doing all of the chores. I can practice barrel racing, jumping, or running full tilt with nothing but a bridle on. I encourage people to ride bareback as much as they can.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08063394636525048383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956677452983748314.post-90015545413418695362009-12-10T04:04:17.673-04:002009-12-10T04:04:17.673-04:00I wouldn't mind the 'weight loss journey&#...I wouldn't mind the 'weight loss journey' entries. I know I myself get a little down and out when I have a friend who is going to start going to the gym four times a week or something, mainly because I'd LOVE to go..but I between work, school and the barn, I don't have time.<br /><br />And then come the suggestions to just skip the barn. Ahem.<br /><br />So to see it coming from someone else who has barn chores and is doing it for something other than "I want to fit into this green bathing suit by spring break" would really be fantastic. <br />It'd be really awesome if you could find a way to measure your fitness/strength along the way. <br />I see that as a lot more important, especially when you start to hit that plateau after losing the first round. Time you can run without feeling out of breath, weight you can lift, number of pushups, etc. Anything to measure your FITNESS would be more encouraging for your readers I think..(as well as yourself! I know sometimes when losing weight, the weight just STOPS losing lol...so you have to go to other things to measure progress).<br /><br />And as for the bra..I hate the feeling of boobies squished together in a sports bra. Haha. Maybe TMI but I HATE it. So I do a normal bra and then a well-fitted sports bra with very WIDE straps and at least four hooks on the back. Same idea as saddle fit to me..I want to spread the weight over as much space as I can. If I know I'm going to be doing some rough trail or even if I go jogging, I'll do the regular bra (with underwire of course), sports bra on snug like it should be, and another lesser quality sports bra on looser. I know I know..THREE BRAS...!!! But that third one just keeps them in place and keeps me from thinking about it as I jog around the field. It's more for me than for the boobies or the onlookers. <br /><br />I tried SEVERAL riding bras. And they were either too bulky, or they made my chest look like to pointy pyramids, or they squished "the girls" together too much. I want to find one that separates a bit instead of just cram packing it all in there. Ugh. <br /><br />I think it might be cool to do "reader interviews" or "guest blogs" every so often. Sort of like you have done with the entries about those of us NOT riding draft horses. I really like the aspect of having the blog be for a community and not just dictating to the crowd.College Horsehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01072214902878322232noreply@blogger.com